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Stephanie Caceres died 12 days after giving birth to twins.

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       For the second time this month, tragedy has struck a local family. Days after a young man was shot and killed, his girlfriend died from complications from giving birth to the couple’s twins. The couple also had a 21-month old daughter. "Just complete shock, completely devastated," said Joni Saunders, aunt of 26-year old Jevaughn Suckoo, the man who was killed. Saunders was joined on Thursday, by Irma Meza, mother of 24-year old Stephanie Caceres, the woman who died. Saunders and Meza spoke at the doctor's office in Lake Clarke Shores, where Caceres worked. The women said they were dealing with the sudden deaths of their loved ones, and the challenge now of caring for the couple's three small children. "I think right now we're just very focused on the children, making sure that they're okay," said Saunders. Earlier this month, Suckoo was shot and killed at the Renaissance Apartments, in West Palm Beach. Police have yet to ma

Do you regret your marriage, and why?

I have been married for 13 years. I cannot have intercourse with my wife. She suffers from a condition wherein physical congress is not possible. I did not know it before I married her. Neither did she. I was/am in love with her. She is smart, beautiful and tough. And we have never had sex. No one knows about this - friends or family. She has pointed out many times, that I'm free to go look for physical satisfaction outside the marriage. I have tried to explain that she does not understand the ramifications of me doing that. I'm concerned that it might affect me and the delicate balance I have maintained between my desires and abstinence. I'm also afraid of losing respect for myself and affecting the marriage. Also, I tell myself, what if she had an actual physical disability. Would I have left her? What sort of person would do that? Once a while though, I imagine how it will be on the other side. And while I have not strayed, I have started questioning if it is wort
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If life is unfair, why should I continue living?

No optimism, no spirituality, and no philosophy. I want a straight forward objective answer.

so sad

My mother knowingly married a pedophile (by the way it saddens me to read other people who have answered this question who have started their story the same way). The day I found out she knew, I was only nine. It utterly broke my heart. InitiallyI was terrified of bathrooms and had lots of accidents because I was so scared of bathrooms. I vomited almost every day from the stress. When I told her what he was doing she called me a whore. Then tried to convince me I was crazy. Then my entire family took to physically abusing me to keep me to scared to tell. So, I started hiding in my closet, breaking into empty houses. I became scared of people. As a teenager I started having flashback anxiety attacks. Eating still made me sick, I became scared of food and dropped to 87 pounds. I really wanted to live though. I wanted to love people. I had hope there was goodness in some people. That somehow drove me to keep trying. Then I had a child of my own and I wanted to be strong for h